Ripple effect…

We make choices every day not knowing the consequences that one decision may make in our lives.

Sometimes fear renders us incapable of taking a step forward—the known is somehow much safer.

What if we open ourselves up and the very opposite of what we hope for happens? What if the people we trust aren’t trustworthy?

You learn from it, and instead of building walls you build a cocoon, soft and silken, and you heal.

And you grow with the knowledge that sometimes people are broken and the decay that grows within them cannot be seen from the outside.

Some would say, you just gotta love them more.

I would say, you just gotta walk away. Listen to your intuition and don’t make excuses justifying someone’s bad behavior. Forge ahead because even the bad things are good things—we grow from the experience.

Burning with Light

Caustics… envelopes of light waves reflected or refracted from a curved surface and projected where they can be visualized. Some of the earliest drawings were done by Leonardo Da Vinci, as he drew reflected caustics from a circular mirror in his notebooks.

I’ve photographed these types of images for years, drawn to them perhaps because of their transient nature. Fleeting, ever changing, flashing prisms of color—they’re related to rainbows.

My father, who was an artist, would have enjoyed this conversation but he’s not here. He died twenty years ago and even after the passage of two decades, I keep him close. He wasn’t perfect, but he loved me and made sacrifices in his role as a father.

Fathers…they step up in ways that can go unnoticed. They stay when they should go, they give when they should take, they abandon dreams in their quest to provide security.

Happy Father’s Day to the amazing men who are fathers, or filling in for fathers. You make the world a better place!