Ripple effect…

We make choices every day not knowing the consequences that one decision may make in our lives.

Sometimes fear renders us incapable of taking a step forward—the known is somehow much safer.

What if we open ourselves up and the very opposite of what we hope for happens? What if the people we trust aren’t trustworthy?

You learn from it, and instead of building walls you build a cocoon, soft and silken, and you heal.

And you grow with the knowledge that sometimes people are broken and the decay that grows within them cannot be seen from the outside.

Some would say, you just gotta love them more.

I would say, you just gotta walk away. Listen to your intuition and don’t make excuses justifying someone’s bad behavior. Forge ahead because even the bad things are good things—we grow from the experience.

Choosing…

words.

pheasant walking away on a snowy road

walk away [wôk] [əˈwā]

a strategy for no-win situations

I enjoy conversations about human nature but have learned to curb my expectation that people can be something other than what they are. I love the words associated with this type of conversation.

intrinsic · fallible · flawed · inherent · nurture · behaviorism · causation · rational · biological · mimetic · potential · innate · entitled · narcissistic · gaslit · envious · manipulate · cognitive · dissonance · hoovering

They roll off your tongue but linger in the fetid air…